Sunday, November 13, 2016

A Woman Should Know Her Place

I've been thinking of my evolution as a woman, and I kept coming back to the two female archetypes of Lilith and Eve.  I've come to the conclusion that there are basically two types of females as far as how they exist in relationship to men, and they are embodied in these two mythological figures of Lilith and Eve.  I was raised, in-cultured, and instructed as a daughter of Eve, but I'm now an awakened daughter of Lilith.  Let me explain.  I think it's helpful to have the language and identify terms before women and men can make a change moving into the new millennium.  Are you Eve, or are you Lilith?    

 Lilith & Eve

I think a discussion of these two characters is worth entertaining.  Some may believe they actually existed, but it may be even more interesting to think that men felt they had to make them up for the purposes of religious mythology.  They needed to demonize the powerful woman to instruct girls as to their proper role as they knew Lilith was inside their daughters, and men felt they needed to extinguish the force of Lilith inside their daughters with this myth, and brain wash them into accepting their sole role as only agents of fertility ...or maybe these two women really existed.  Far be it from me to disabuse anyone of what they believe to be history.  I confess that there is something inside me as well that wants to believe the latter as it explains so much about the nature of women and men. 

Some say Lilith was created first before Adam, and at the least, they were created at the same time from the very same stuff.  Lilith was Adam's first wife in the garden of Eden.  She refused to submit to her husband as he demanded and would not assume the missionary position lying on her back with her legs spread and insisted on riding on top for her own sexual gratification.  She reasoned she would only accept an equal relationship as they were both made from the very same star stuff.  Lilith was just trying to maintain her equality, and Adam tried to overstep his authority insisting that she submit.  She refused, spoke the name of god, used her frequent flier miles and flew away.  It's interesting that no where in the mythology did anyone from the establishment descend and issue the "Thou shalt chill, Bitch" command to Lilith ordering her to listen to Adam.  Adam takes it upon himself to overstep his authority.  In her seclusion, she bore many children in a cave.  Angels were sent to convince her to return and threatened to kill her children if she didn't.  Everybody upstairs really wanted her to return to that asshole, but she refused to return to Adam because he was basically being a total dick demanding that she submit.  Obviously, Adam was a frequent ejaculator jerking off in the garden all day and hadn't discovered his true nature through semen retention.  Because of his extreme dickishness, Adam was alone in the garden.  And the establishment went back to the drawing board to come up with a woman that could coexist with a dick of this magnitude.

Lilith was replaced with the spineless Eve that was designed from the initial concept phase from the
beginning to submit to her husband's word and be a helpmate to her husband.  To make this kind of spineless woman that Adam could subject to his will, they had to make her from different stuff than Lilith and Adam were made of.  Eve was a watered down, dialed down version of a woman designed to submit and created last as an afterthought, the weakest link to stand in for the real woman to take her place next to Adam after everything else on earth was created.  She was taken from Adam's rib to give him power over her.

We see these women everyday: women that submit to their husbands, women that tear down other women that actually are making a difference in the world, the 53% of white women that voted for Trump, women that sexually mutilate little girls in some sects, women that enjoy the rights that the daughters of Lilith fought for without a second thought about the sacrifice it took to obtain them etc.  The daughters of Eve are all around us enabling Adam and his overwhelming drive to make the world submit to him from his oppression of race and gender to enslaving and raping the planet for his own gain.  The daughters of Eve fulfilling their purpose and design have been propping these men up for millennia. 

Even though Adam got what he wanted, I can't help but think he didn't have respect for this Stepford wife and always regretted losing Lilith who was the true equal to him that Eve never was.  It's interesting to note that Lilith was not banned from partaking from the tree of knowledge but Eve was.  After all, the establishment didn't need to deal with another woman that had any brains.

Strolling through the garden, Eve saw this confident, groovy chick with swagger hanging out under the Tree of Knowledge and was obviously drawn to her.  Who wouldn't be seduced in the presence of a 100% designed woman as she was supposed to be. Yes, Lilith was transformed into the serpent by male writers to symbolize brilliance and cunning over the millennia greatly simplifying the Sunday school teacher's job.   Lilith being into organic produce held out a piece of fruit and told Eve "It's cool, it's loaded with polyphenols."  And Eve wanting to hang with the cool kids and susceptible to all health food claims,  partook in the first documented case of peer pressure, and Adam was back in hell but not as bad because Eve was only a little bitchy being taken from only his rib.  But the seed of Lilith was on its way because Eve's daughters have been making Blendtec smoothies with this fruit ever since, upsetting the apple cart throughout time.    

As I look at the world around me, I see women that are descendants of the the spineless Eve, and
women that descend from the fearless Lilith who defined her own role.  Of course the losers in history are always demonized by the winners, and in Lilith's case she was demonized literally along with her demon off spring by male writers talking smack about her and male artists depicting their fears of a dominant woman in Lilith for thousands of years.  I'm proud to be a daughter of Lilith, and to live in an age where the daughters of Lilith thrive.  As daughters of Eve we can reclaim the seed of Lilith within us, nurture it defeating the program of Eve within us and use the wisdom from the Tree of Knowledge to help Adam realize his true nature.  As a daughter of Lilith I have excelled in my career over many of my male peers and subdued my Alpha male husband taking control of my marriage, and consequently he has grown to love and respect me even more than before.  As women we need to observe that men despise weakness and respect strength.  It's when we're hard and firm that their penis becomes hard and firm testifying to the true nature of man.

The universe has installed a program in the son's of Adam that can be activated through semen retention so that they can coexist with the daughters of Lilith in harmony.  I believe men seek and crave to be in the presence of Lilith as they have evolved.   As men kneel before Lilith, she will reveal to them their true nature.

Cultural Oppression

Men have lived in fear of the power of women over the millennia.  Religions have taken action to restrict their power.  Whatever the rational that religion has stated is the reason for this means absolutely nothing because the end result is the true meaning of the action.  The end result is that they're silenced.  Their sexuality is removed by cutting off their clitoris and their vaginas sewn up by the daughters of Eve in some sects.  What a nice stress reliever to take the pressure off of men to perform sexually by surgically altering women so they are physically incapable of receiving satisfaction.  How terrified men must be of female power. A woman is considered so powerful that she must be veiled by the hijab to limit and cut off her influence from corrupting the society.  Her voice is shut down even before it's heard.  If a husband even fears possible highhandedness from his wife, he is encouraged to beat her.  Those poor men live in terror of women in the middle east.  Is there anything we can do to help them I wonder?  Islam’s prophet says: “There is no salvation for a man or a nation who allows women to rule over them.”   If it weren't so heinous, it would be laughable.  Women are so powerful in Islam, it's permitted for the male to cut her nose off, throw acid in her face, beat her fiercely to try to neutralize her influence.   In Pakistan, domestic violence occurs in forms of beatings, sexual violence, torture, mutilation, and burning the victim alive called bride burning (for her family's refusal to pay additional dowry to the husband or his family).  Over 90% of Pakistani women consider domestic violence as a norm of every woman's married life.

I once had a female friend that visited a region in the middle east years ago.  She walked down the street as a normal woman would in the west.  She was wearing the required headscarf, but men were so aroused by her bare feet visible through her sandals that some were masturbating in public looking at her as she walked by.  This is a powerful example of the erotic power that women hold over men.  What pathetic creatures that can be so strongly influenced by the sight of a woman's feet that they would debase themselves in public.  I don't see eastern males as different than western males.  What observing males in the east shows us is a raw unfiltered picture of what males are without civilizing influences.  It shows what they are capable of if they go unchecked.  Is there any doubt that men must be subdued, broken and trained by their wives to be better mannered?  We love our men, and we need to do what's best for them.  If a man doesn't respect you, he can not love you, and if he has free access to your vagina and ejaculation, he will not respect you.

The Witch Hunts

How else can you eliminate any woman that might display any symptoms of the seed of Lilith that may lurk inside her and eradicate this evil seed?  Don't you know that women are much more susceptible to temptation by the devil?  The witch hunts came about in the 1300s.  Men, and children were persecuted as witches as well, but 95% of the hunts were focused on women, depending on the region.  They would convict a few to maybe hundreds of women at a time, and obviously any women that might display an independent spirit would be deemed by the  judges, ministers, priests, constables, jailers, judges, doctors, prickers, torturers, jurors, executioners who were nearly 100 percent male as consorting with the devil and sentenced to death by hanging, burning, drowning, breaking on the wheel.  Other punishments inflicted on convicted witches included mutilating, branding, whipping, dunking, locking in the the stocks, jailing, fining, banishing, or selling into slavery. Tens of thousands of women died in this manner over 400 years ending in the 1700s.  There are multiple theories about why the hunts happened like: illness, disaster, geography,  conspiracy, greed, social control, religious rebellion, social function, religious function and mysogyny.  But lets not look at any rationalization to explain behavior.  Always look at the end result. The behavior: Killing women in mass.  The result:  tens of thousands of dead women and more importantly to the establishment, millions more controlled by the chilling effect this mass extermination had.  The hunts embodied primarily hostility against women, specifically women that were empowering themselves outside the male system, and citizens were looking to them for guidance and healing.  Yes, it was a challenge to male authority and the male established orthodox religion.  And of course, men asked themselves, what would Jesus do?  That's right.  Murder all the dissident women or at least give it a good try.  Killing people in mass is always such a logistical nightmare for men.  Eventually their arms get tired from tying all those knots and building all those platforms and it fizzled in western culture around the 1700s.

Witch hunts are still great sport today in some areas:

In India, labeling a woman as a witch is a common ploy to grab land, settle scores or even to punish her for turning down sexual advances.  A 2010 estimate places the number of women killed as witches in India at between 150 and 200 per year, or a total of 2,500 in the period of 1995 to 2009

In Papua New Guinea in June 2013, four women were accused of witchcraft because the family "had a 'permanent house' made of wood, and the family had tertiary educations and high social standing."  All of the women were tortured and Helen Rumbali was beheaded.

In Saudi Arabia 118 people were arrested in 2009, 74% of them female.  Human Rights Watch stated "Saudi courts are sanctioning a literal witch hunt by the religious police."

After the hunts ended in the 1700s in Europe, women were forced to depend on men by limiting property rights and restricting the right to vote which of course eliminates the possibility of any politician giving a flying ..... about what happens to you or how you're treated.

An Awakening

In 1848, Elizabeth Cady Stanton Stated in her "Declaration of Sentiments" “The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her. To prove this, let facts be submitted to a candid world.”

  • Married women were legally dead in the eyes of the law
  • Women were not allowed to vote
  • Women had to submit to laws when they had no voice in their formation
  • Married women had no property rights
  • Husbands had legal power over and responsibility for their wives to the extent that they could imprison or beat them with impunity
  • Divorce and child custody laws favored men, giving no rights to women
  • Women had to pay property taxes although they had no representation in the levying of these taxes
  • Most occupations were closed to women and when women did work they were paid only a fraction of what men earned
  • Women were not allowed to enter professions such as medicine or law
  • Women had no means to gain an education since no college or university would accept women students
  • With only a few exceptions, women were not allowed to participate in the affairs of the church
  • Women were robbed of their self-confidence and self-respect, and were made totally dependent on men
I couldn't agree more with Stanton when she said at an 1868 Women's Suffrage Convention in Washington, D.C "The male element is a destructive force, stern, selfish, aggrandizing, loving war, violence, conquest, acquisition, breeding in the material and moral world alike, discord, disorder, disease, and death. See what a record of blood and cruelty the pages of history reveal! Through what slavery, slaughter, and sacrifice, through what inquisitions and imprisonments, pains and persecutions, black codes and gloomy creeds, the soul of humanity has struggled for the centuries, while mercy has veiled her face and all hearts have been dead alike to love and hope!"

Dangerous Women

Dangerous Woman: Kitty Marion
The daughters of Lilith had to resort to acts of terrorism to make their voices heard.  It took great effort to even be seen as human beings instead of as solely agents of fertility.  Dangerous militant women like Kitty Marion resorted to bombings and arson outside banks, churches and a theater. Acts of vandalism also prevailed breaking glass, destroying art etc.  I'm not sure why, but men don't seem to listen until you start breaking their toys and destroying their property.  I guess it's a certain emotional IQ that prevails in them. Eventually, men said "why didn't you just ask?" and women secured the right to vote.  And things started changing because politicians saw a need to pander to 50% of the voting public.

Restricting women from education can't be overemphasized.  Limiting language and ideas severely limits the power of the individual.  Limiting knowledge, physical intimidation, the threat of being committed to an asylum and labeled as a non person in the eyes of the law are a fairly good tool set for controlling a person absolutely.  Really, how terrified men must have been to devise a system this vile to oppress half of the population.

In America it was difficult for a woman to make her way in the early mid 20th century without tying herself to the coat tails of a man in her late teens to very early twenties.  Now,  men are viewed as optional to women and many wait until they're close to thirty before considering marriage as they consider their biological clock in regards to having children.

Men are dangerous, and we as women should acknowledge this.  They have a program within them that can be activated by semen retention and regular intense sexual stimulation that will humble them in the presence of women.  Women need to realize we hold the ultimate power and should set the terms for entry into the ultimate prize men seek.  Now that I regulate entry into my vagina and his ejaculation schedule, my husband's manners are greatly improved.  We live in an age where men can no longer take what they want without severe legal consequences.  The next step in feminism is for women to transmute the energy of their men into something productive through semen retention, the ejaculation schedule, and agreed upon consequences for unauthorized ejaculation.  We can truly assist them in reaching heights they could never have imagined possible and aid in their spiritual evolution.  The only thing that can subvert this movement are the daughters of Eve that are completely ignorant of the nature of their men letting their men take what they want whenever they want.  Men have used everything at their disposal to compel, force, coerce women to submit over the millennia.  We are now at a new fork in the road that could change the world significantly.

A Woman's Place in the New Millennium

Just following the mythology,  we were designed to be submissive per the request of Adam to the establishment, but we do have the seed of Lilith within us since we were made from Adam as Adam and Lilith came from the same star stuff.  We as women can overcome this programming of weakness, nurture that seed until Eve is exterminated and the nature of women's design that Adam requested is defeated.  As I regulate my husband's ejaculations and apply consequences, Lilith grows and Eve recedes further into the background, and I'm able to give Adam what he needed in the first place.  This really would have been better for the world if this was implemented properly in the beginning.  It would have prevented untold death and suffering through the millennia.   

I can easily see that when women realize that they set the terms of entry into a vagina which is the sole motivating factor of male behavior, that culture will change.  The daughters of Eve will always grant easy frequent access with constant ejaculation setting themselves up for abuse, neglect, being taken for granted and driving their husbands into the arms of novel females because they've made themselves a complete non stimulus.  They are soft and weak and men secretly despise them.

The daughters of Lilith will use their erotic influence to set strict terms for men to enter their vaginas.  They will insist to the men who enter them that they practice semen retention and request that they hand over control over their ejaculations and set severe consequences for unauthorized ejaculation.  Men that belong to the daughters of Lilith will crave their women passionately as these women are worthy of their worship.  They will be bonded closely to their women as their sexual energy hasn't been dissipated through frequent ejaculation.  They will have model behavior as they strive to stay on track so they can ejaculate on the special day their wife has set for them.

We've entered an age where strength has become irrelevant.  The Ox may be the most powerful animal on the farm, but the farmer runs the farm.  As women are out earning men in many careers, the dynamics of households are upended in many aspects.  As always, money is power, and he/she who wields it, sets the rules.  But even so, men who have been frequent ejaculators for years realize they need and crave Lilith, and they happily handover their paycheck to their housewives.

I urge women to make this realization and set terms for entry into their vaginas.  Once women realize this one fact, things will change.  Culture is already changing, but it will move faster as women embrace this fact.

Everything my husband and I do is arrived at through open communication and understanding of each other's needs.  Everything we do is mutually agreed upon and done to increase the love and passion in our relationship as we move forward as a team.


Thanks to my hubby for helping with the layout ...and the orgasms! :-)

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